WHY DO KIDS NEED PARENTS?

Parents.


Why do kids need them? you ever wonder? What we know is, that they just appear in our lives without we giving a choice whether wanting them or not. Why's that? Simple.

First, let me tell you. Life without parents is like a life without love. Parents love are so holy and pure, that even you hurt them, they wont mind, and certainly wont bounce back. No other human being wouldnt be angry if you hurt them. Well except your parents.

okay anyway. Back to the main top. Why do kids need their parents?

You may know that human need guidance in their lives. You want to play games, you play the tutorial first. You want to drive, you learn to drive from a driving instructor. Similarly, parents are the ultimate guider for us in life, after Al Quran and Sunnah. Even reading the Quran, it was your parents who taught you that. It was them who teach you how to eat and how to go to the toilet. Honestly boy, without them, i dont think you ll be standing here. you might still crawlin and poop in your pants.

Have you ever heard of the saying " Parents know best " ? Cant be more true than that. Even they prevent you from being too free, but as i said earlier, parents know best. Seriously, go ahead and imagine. How many times you have injuries and accidents when your parents gave you permission to do something? How many times do you think you would have injuries and accidents when your parents give MORE permission? Yeah go ahead and say, " Experience is the best teacher " . Coz Lets see you said that when your mother told you not to go hiking, and u still do and u fell hard breaking both of your legs. Experience is a good teacher. But parents are better teachers than experience. Oh so much better.

Living with parents, its like studying living skills ( kemahiran hidup ) . They teach almost every living skills. Situation 1, your father is smoking. You go to your dad and ask, " dad, can i smoke? "
For freakin sure, your dad will answer, " No son. Its unhealthy ". BAM. 1 living skill obtained.
Situation 2, your mother is cooking. She calls you to help her in the kitchen. BAM, 2 living skills obtained. Come on, where else can you get free love (infinity) + free living skills education + free drinks and food + free accommodation + free clothes + free toys + free vacations + ETC ( too much wont bother writing) for life?? Not to mention, you get allowance through almost your whole life. You tell me where can i get all that in this world aside from parents, then i shall agree with you that kids dont need parents. Goodluck with that.



Anyway, with all those things ^ , they deserve every kindness that we have. You respect your teachers, you respect your instructors, you respect your lecturers. you even respect your gf/bf (lol) , why cant you respect them? Thats why they are number 3 in this universe that we MUST respect, follow and give full love, after Allah and Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). No excuse brothers and sisters.

“say not to them a word of disrespect” [al-Israa’ 17:23]


Even words of Allah tells you to not to say even a word of disrespect for them. How many have you said in your whole life? Honestly, even i myself said at least once UMH or AWWHHH to them. Thats why, we should keep improving ourselves and try our best to please them, while they are still alive. :)


PARENTS RULEZ!!

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